Interpersonal Problem Counselling

Socializing Problems

Humans are known to be social animals. Socializing is the basic necessity to survive in our human world. Socializing includes meeting new people, initiating conversations, urges to meet peers, friends and family members. Liking to attend school, interest oriented classes, parties, functions, festival celebrations etc. People who choses to avoid interaction and chooses a solitary confinement can be told as having socializing problem (not to be confused with introverts)

Socializing counselling helps teens who is showing one or more of following behaviours

• Isolation
• Avoidance
• Procrastion
• Anger
• Avoids public
• Don’t make friends
• Anxious
• Stressed
• Left uninvited by peer or colleagues

Bullying

Bullying can cause psychological or physical harm. Bullying happens when an individual is caused ongoing and deliberate abuse in any relationship. It takes away confidence and inflicts shame. Feeling of helpless ness and shame can lead to suicide ideation or suicide because bullied can not protect self from the person causing bullys. Bullys can involve an individual or a group misusing their power, or perceived power, over one or more persons who feel unable to stop it from happening.

Bullying can happen in person or online, via various digital platforms and devices and it can be obvious (overt) or hidden (covert). Bullying behaviour is repeated, or has the potential to be repeated, over time (for example, through sharing of digital records).

In today’s world which has been made smaller by technology, new age problems have been born. … To put it simply, cyberbullying refers to the misuse of information technology with the intention to harass others.

Children and Young Adults are an easy prey to Cyber bullying.

Bullying of any form or for any reason can have immediate, medium and long-term effects on those involved, including bystanders

Single incidents and conflict or fights between equals, whether in person or online, are not defined as bullying.

What bullying is not

• single episodes of social rejection or dislike
• single episode acts of nastiness or spite
• random acts of aggression or intimidation
• mutual arguments, disagreements or fights.

  These actions can cause great distress. However, they do not fit the definition of bullying and they’re not examples of bullying unless someone is deliberately and repeatedly doing them.

Counselling will help an individual feel capable of handling and dealing with the situation more efficiently